Wanna hang out?

What comes to your mind when some random person you met at a random instance ask you to hang out with him or her?

I know a lot of you will think that they have a crush on you and that they want to flirt with you and only 10% of 100 will think that they simply want to hang out with you and just that. 

I did ask a random "he" out more than once for reasons that they seem to be nice people to hang out with, they seem to be fun people to add in my circle of friends and to expand my network of friends in facebook, friendster and multiply; some I met in fashion shows, pictorials and in some events I was invited to. Out of 10 only 4 agreed and 6 said they are busy and immediately said that they have a girlfriend. It was funny, sometimes I wanted to reply and say that I am not asking you to have a date with me dude...just see it as the obvious. I still want to keep them in my friend list though they made me sound like I am flirting with them.

A wile ago I was chatting with my uncle...as always he greeted with "ano ate? my boyfriend ka na?" and my default response is "technically speaking...no, I don't" he typed LOL and said that Maybe I should try not to project a strong personality and try to play the game.  Well, I am a frank girl and when I like someone, I say it to his face. I don't mind whether he smile or stay away from me after that...the point is I said I like you and not I want to be with you or even worse...I love you. 

I remember doing that to one of my college friends; we were in this argument and I can't seem to calm him down and he really looked cute when he began doing the suplado look at me that I stare at his face and said "alam mo ba na crush kita?" he suddenly shut up, then stood up and avoided to walk beside me until the end of class. I got worried with what I did that I ask another guy friend what the hell did I do, then his response was "eh ikaw kaya sabihan ng ganun di ka maiilang?" I said no and that I'd say thank you instead. He laughed and said that I am so dense. 

The thing is, I mean what I say the way I said it...you don't have to think beyond and make a hypothesis about it, but then again the stupid thing about my thinking is that I forgot that not all people react or think the way I do, so I end up the one looking stupid; but hey that's the way it is! Though it's a mixture of sadness and happiness when this happens. : P